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The tragic story of Boship and Jenelyn... who's lesson? Unfortunately, Boship can't learn from his mistake, he now faces the brunt of the law. So is our belove d sister, Jenelyn, like many before her, sadly they no longer breath. Then who's lesson is it? Definitely, the protest march and all the energy gathered and forged at this time against GBV should not go in vain. There is a saying that goes, "A wise man learns from his own mistake but the wisest learns from other people's mistake" Young people, especially the unmarried. (no offense to the married) Boship's case maybe very extreme but it started somewhat as a usual harmless situation. A boy and girl, flirting and then decided to go the extreme mile on a path that demands mutal commitment of trust and understanding if it was to sustain with love, joy and happiness. The end story tell us otherwise, they were not ready for that commitment. Such examples are not new. I am sure yo

What is the root cause of Domestic Violence? This is a question that needs serious answers to it. Others may have their perspective on it, but this is my take. And I will say, itt goes back to the matters of the bedroom. The place where the sacred ritual that forges the union is not understood well. The needs of a man and of a woman in the bedroom is not the same. The lack of knwledge on these leads to so many complex issue and DV could be an effect. here is a piece i shared in 2016... ................................................................ "Sex: The Neglect and denial" ................................................................ I shared this a lot with few of my married brothers and would like to share just a little here. I learnt this from a book. It surprises me that its news to most of them. Basic, deep serious stuff. Hausman talk, i'd say Almost most marital problem find its root cause back into the matters of the bedroom. Couples can bl

Is it Adam's or Eve's fault causing the fall of men out of Eden? My take, ADAM Why? All instructions were given to Adam not Eve What to do, what not to do What to eat, what not to eat Adam was expected to teach, mold, nurture and protect Eve  Reading the story, until Adam swallowed the fruit, God moved Even when Eve spoke to the snake, took the fruit, swallowed the fruit and gave part of it to Adam God did not move until Adam bite it and swallowed it It was Adam's action that moved God, not Eve The issue was Adam's response and reaction And when God came down He first called "Adam, Adam where are you?" Not Eve, why did you get the fruit? because, he placed the responsibility to protect, teach, nurture on Adam so he checks on Adam. Brothers, uncles, papas our reactions and action to a woman's emotional nature has the power to make or break... We have a responsibility to nurture, teach, mold and protect //////////////////